Today I had my 9th monthsary with Darling. After this last crisis, it really does feel good to be back with him again. I really do still love him and I can see that he is willing to open up to me more now. Today, I feel that we made a great discovery together. I feel that we have bridged a gap between us and that we have finally found at least one solution to solve our differences when we quarrel. Thank you self-help books for you have tuned my mind to want to help my relationship and not ruin it anymore!!!

Darling really opened up to me today and I guess it is thanks to him being able to open up that we can move on because a single hand can make no noise. Things are starting to look up. I won't say we are not quarrelling but where it used to be destructive in the past, I now feel that we are having an increasinly constructive relationship. A relationship is precious and we should work ahrd at it. No one said it would be easy. But I know that it will be worth the effort.