It's not a matter of "do unto others what you want others to do unto you". It's more of "love others the way you want others to love you". "Love" is a stronger word than "do" and it is a definite positive emotion. When we love someone, we are willing to fork out our everything, at whatever cost, for the other person to be happy. Only when we give a 100% can we even expect a 100% back from the other party. If we do not give, we have no right to recieve. Sometimes though, when we give a 100%, the other party may not give you back a 100%. But in life, 1+1 may not be equals to 2. A + may not give a + back, it may give you a - and a few other negative signs before a positive sign comes along but we must understand that at the end of the day, life will balance everything out for us. We must believe in life and love. =))