Feedback

I have a confession to make. I am childish and I like to be pampered. I can be easy going mostly but every now and then, I like to be treated like the princess that I wish I could be. And nobody can do it better than my boyfriend. My parents can't make me feel like a princess because they feel that they are too high and mighty to give in much to me. My friends can't treat me like a princess because well we're peers and if I'm a princess so are they. No royal treatments here haha... the only person that can make me feel like a princess is my boyfriend.

I'm not saying he has to hold my train wherever I go or lie over puddles of water so I can walk over him to prevent my heels from getting dirty.
I am talking of the little things like giving in to me when I'm having a tantrum (he can always chide me about it afterwards); saying sorry in an arguement like he means it even though he's not all to blame; telling me I am beautiful even though I'm saying for the hundredth time that I am fat/ ugly etc etc.

I've come to be less angry and know how to curb my anger well, but sometimes the inner princess in me wants some attention and she feels very very sad when she doesn't get it... Showing love to people is easy provided they see that you love them and in return do what you need to feel loved =)) we should open our eyes more to how others are loving us. yes it's true there are ways we want people to love us and if they don't do it the way we want, of course we have to tell them!! They can't read minds.

I know my darling loves me because of the little things he does:
1) Pull out chairs for me to sit in
2) Wakes me up in the mornings if he happens to wake up before me
3) Gets jealous when other guys gets too near me
4) Wants to kiss me still even though it's been 9 months =))
5) Drives me/ sends me home from wherever we are
6) Talks to me at night even though he's tired
7) Smses me even though his phone bill is exploding
8) Tells me that he loves me
etc etc

I really wonder what he will say if he had to write the above list? =))
I believe in feedback and not complaints. Complaints is the negative form of a feedback and the only person powerful enough to make anything sound positive or negative is yourself. If someone tells me something they don't like about me, yes I'll be upset but then I will change that into feedback and learn from it. Change is the only constant in us and as long as I'm alive, I will change, hopefully for the better. The people who don't change and think that everyone is just complaining about them and that they don't have to change are going to make themselves miserable in the long run. I have stopped believing in the "if they love me they'll know what I want" mentality because NOBODY will know if you don't tell anyone. So, if there's something I would like from you I will tell you. Let's hope that people don't take it the wrong way. =)) AND I'll only tell people/ give people feedback if I love them and care to grow with them so if I DO give yopu any feedback please look into it =))