Hmmmm haven't cried over someone for awhile now. And I feel the tears coming again. Blame it on the me who goes keyboard happy and starts typing stuff that comes to mind, not know that they sound harsh or critical. Then again these stuff always happen. They are kinda out of the ordinary. Mostly when people play a fool with me I tend to laugh it off, tolerating because I see them as friends. Maybe I shouldn't do that? But I can't seem to stay angry with friends for long and that is probably my downfall. Accepting people seems so easy at first but then they see that you are ok with how they act and then they do it again and again and again. And you'd think that after that you two would get closer? But one time, you tell them stuff on your mind, and are critical with them, they can't take it. It's just not the "you" they are used to. This "new you" is so icky and harsh and critical and antagonizing. Well... it doesn't mean you can take their shit so they can take yours you know. And I guess thats where true friends stand out.
I count Victoria and Delvinder as two of my bestest friends because, well, we are tolerant to each other at times and dish out shit to each other at times. It's those times when they receive your shit yet still continue to be friends with you, that you know that they are really good friends. There can be no smooth sailing friendships. But I find accepting criticism and dishing it out are what makes friendships stronger. It's a make or break thing. And when some friendships break, well, it's better to lose those friends than continue with them, get closer to them, only to let them break you when you finally see that they can't take shit. LOL
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