if the amt of effort put in is not going to get me 40% and above then dont put in so much effort

ok what seems to make you wanna hold on is that you're scared you can't find a girl better than her or as good as her or as close to your match.

would you rather a girl who has a perfect character that you want but is playing you like a oyo or a girl who is a bit off what you want but not too much but loves you for everything you stand forlove is enjoyed when the other party loves you tooone sided love cannot work.

then you gotta learn there is no princess of your dreamsthere is the ms good enoughand most of the time miss good enough can make you happy.

because you're idealistic.

maybe after you've failed to have the love of all the Princess will you finally see that what you had all along was the best thing it's just that you keep giving it up for something that you dream of but can never really happenit takes a long time for some pplgotta get their heart brokenof course got some ppl find princess and live happily ever afterbut a lot of ppl don;tthey either get damn depressedor they find that actually they can be so much happier with someone who loves them.

think carefullyyou're not exactly oldmove around abitbut if you really want a r/sthen dudego for a girlwho loves younot a girl who strings you alongdont get into a r/sdate and look aroundyou dont need to pay for window shopping defind someone who you can deal with and who loves youthen go in lor.

yuppsowindow shopping is suchyou go in try a shirtyou like the colorthe styleeverythingjust thatthe size is wrongS is a bit too tightbut you can wear isit*but not comfortable at allwill you still buy it?it may be nice but it doesnt fit you at allwhy you wanna be so xin1 ku3not obliged to buy itgo other shop and seemaybe got better ones.

i'm just sayingshe's not the only girl left in the worldthe world is so bigif she and you are fatednext time somehow you will get togetherbut looking at it nowwhy waste your tiem and effort on her when you could be looking for someone better.